Had a chance run-in with an androgynous person the other day. I had stopped at a fast food place and this person was working the cash register. I was totally blown away with the mixed gender signals I got from this person. This person had a completely androgynous name, and working in a fast food restaurant had a uni-sex uniform on. Short hair framed a cute face, and a ponytail exited from under the back of the cap. The voice was definitely masculine while body motion was very feminine. Being a bit taller than myself, I glanced up, looking for more gender markers and decided I definitely saw feminine breasts under the knit pull-over shirt. I was thoroughly confused by this person's gender, and that doesn't happen very often to me.
The incident got me to considering the subject of androgyny. Speaking only for myself, when I'm in female mode, I always consider myself somewhat "girly-girly". I enjoy projecting a female image. It seemed to me that a bit of gender ambiguity might be both possible and permissible from time to time, so I've decided to start exploring this option as well.
Let's face reality. I've got friends and co-workers that don't seem to share my enjoyment of high-heeled shoes. Some uni-sex loafers might be a safer alternative. Projecting a "100% male" image gets boring after awhile (and in my case that normally takes just a couple of minutes).
If that was you in the fast food restaurant, I'd love to hear from you.